{"id":4,"date":"2022-07-15T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2022-07-15T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mainlineprocounseling.com\/?p=1"},"modified":"2022-10-28T01:46:41","modified_gmt":"2022-10-28T01:46:41","slug":"welcome-to-cloudways","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mainlineprocounseling.com\/welcome-to-cloudways\/","title":{"rendered":"Postpartum and a relationship between parents"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
Postpartum and a relationship between parents.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
When the baby is born, the marriage changes. Before the baby, you both look forward and get ready for the little one\u2019s arrival. You have a birth plan, the after care: crib is ready, pump and bottles all set, everything is clean. However, when the little one comes, everything (or mostly) everything that you both planned, falls apart, and your married life turns upside down. Over suddenly, the definition of \u201ctwo of US\u201d changes to the three or four of us. As a mom, you start to spend more time with the baby, you feel tired and exhausted with the new obligations and responsibilities, you lack sleep and your sexual drive decreases. Your body is changed and needs to adjust to the \u201cnew you.\u201d Your world as a mom is based on satisfying your child\u2019s needs and not your partner\u2019s.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
All these changes usually make your partner feel rejected, neglected, often \u201cabandoned.\u201d He may feel that your love is relocated and now the baby and baby\u2019s needs are your priority. Husband usually doesn\u2019t understand your point of view, your overwhelming feelings, being tired physically and emotionally. Many times, he doesn\u2019t adjust well to changes such as helping out around the house, being supportive, coming home earlier from work, giving you a couple of hours break during weekends etc. You start to bicker, argue, and create a distance between each other.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If you don\u2019t take care of each other and your own personal needs, you will start to grow apart. Here are some tips to follow in order to become a more mindful and loving partner?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tips for a healthy post-baby relationship with a partner:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Postpartum and a relationship between parents. When you think about your baby, what 3 words come to your mind? When you think about your husband, what 3 words come to your mind? When you think about the changes that occurred in your marriage since you had a baby, what 3 words come to your mind? […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":535,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mainlineprocounseling.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mainlineprocounseling.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mainlineprocounseling.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mainlineprocounseling.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mainlineprocounseling.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/mainlineprocounseling.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":252,"href":"https:\/\/mainlineprocounseling.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4\/revisions\/252"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mainlineprocounseling.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/535"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mainlineprocounseling.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mainlineprocounseling.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mainlineprocounseling.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}